Artists & Sex

Original posting June 25, 2008

For the first time in my life I had sex with a “guy in the band”. I have always wanted to say that!!!

Music is very, very important to me! I've heard it said that music is the soundtrack of our lives and it is so true for me.

Songs link me to my past and here are a few examples...

When I went to Montessori school in the early 70's I recall one day riding home with my mom in her yellow 1973 Ford Mustang coupe listening to "Saturday in the Park" by Chicago (I LOVE horns).

And then there was the first time I had sex (too young to know better) when I was 15 and my boyfriend and I were listening to "Silly Love Songs" on the Wings at the Speed of Sound album. We both lost our virginity and sadly I heard he took his own life a few years ago...

And lastly, I won't ever forget during my rebellious youth going to a rather seedy house w/ my best friend to smoke pot...sitting on a mattress on the floor of this guy's bedroom with High Times posters all over the walls listening to Talking Heads song "Take Me to the River" and hitting a bong...hard to believe some of the stuff I went through...but I'm still here : )

Anyway, I cannot live without music. I often imagined musicians and other artists would be great in bed. Maybe it was just one of those generalizations that one hears but it is one I imprinted into my head. I've only had one experience so far with a man in a band (not a major rock star...but he could've been) and that was recently with a new friend.

Our encounter was magical!!! He brought his I-POD and speakers and played such an appropriate selection of love-making songs and brought a nice bottle of Pinot Noir for us. I provided the candles (you need all three for a romantic setting in my opinion) and a fun, flirtatious attitude (as usual).

There was so much passion that exploded out of us that our bodies were drenched with sweat and after round 3 we collapsed on the bed in complete exhaustion. I felt worked like a guitar being strummed by Eric Clapton!!! OH GOD YES !!!!!!!

Well, I can only make the assumption right now (having had one experience) that my guess that artists/musicians are great in bed is correct!! But don't take my word for it ; )

With that being said....I am off to hear some great (I hope) jazz music in a little while.... hmmmmmmmmxoxoxo

Emma ; )